How To Impress a Girl In Your School

Hey fellow reader, I”m guessing you go to an educational institute of some sort and know girls that you find attractive. You want to find a way to talk to them and impress them but can’t figure out how?

Its easier than you think.  All you have to do is find a way to ask the girl a question and approach her.  In a conservative country like India you have to be very careful in the way you approach the girl.  The best way to approach is with a question to make sure you don’t scare of off.  If you see her go up and say “Excuse me, did you know what the homework was for the last class” or some sort of similar question.  After she answers the question ask her to elaborate on the topic.  Just make sure you chat for a couple of minutes to get her comfortable with you.

After a couple minutes say “By the way, my name is ….”.

She’ll introduce herself to you.  Change the topic on some sort of commonality, such as your college or teachers.  If you go to the same school you’ll have a ton of commonalities.  Use them to your advantage.  After a 10-15 conversation ask what she’s doing that weekend and tell you two should hang out.  If you’ve had a decent conversation she’ll most likely say yes.

Remember, keep it simple!  Don’t try too hard and just have a normal conversation and keep changing the topic every few minutes.  Since you guys both go to the same school you have infinite number of topics to discuss.  The best way to impress her is  by not trying to impress her.  Girls hate it when you try to go out of your way to make an impression on them, when in reality they should be the one trying to one your approval.

Remember, you’re the prize!  If you don’t believe that truly the girl will not be interested in you.  Girls are interested in guys who are relaxed and confident, not guys who are desperate to meet girls.  So just focus on having a relaxed conversation instead of trying to impress her and you’ll go a long way.

Love Tips for Girls

Understanding the language of love is difficult for even the savviest girl. No one is born with a handbook that guides them toward the right direction of any matter of the heart. Typically, we have two options: learn the hard way, or take advice from someone who's been there and done that. Below are three tips that will help you get the right guy and make you steer clear of the wrong guys.

1. Don't Fall for the Bad Boy

   • If you're falling head over heels for the bad boy who never shows up to school, rides a motorcycle, smokes pot and has multiple "friends with benefits," resist the temptation. He likely doesn't respect the meaning of a committed relationship and will always be more focused on feeding his bad boy image than treating you like a lady.
     If your idea of a romantic date is hanging out in his parent's basement reluctantly watching "The Godfather" while being pressured to make out, then by all means, date the bad boy. But, if you'd prefer a candle-lit picnic in the park where you first met, stick to the bookworms, prepsters and guys with good reputations who still believe in chivalry. They're the ones who have respect for their moms and have been taught to treat women with the respect we deserve.
     

   Don't Change Yourself

   • Changing your style, friends and personality might seem like the best way to get the guy. But it's truly a self-destructive pattern. Sure, it's possible that your crush may take an interest in you after these changes. But his attention and affection does no good if he isn't falling for the real you.
     Instead of trying to be someone else, flirt with him and make some moves to see if he's into you. If he's responsive, you've got the green light; he might be into you. If he just shrugs you off, move on; he probably wasn't that hot to begin with. There will always be a hotter, smarter or more sensitive guy in your school that will appreciate you for the real you.
     

   Take Pride in Your Appearance

   • It's no secret that guys gravitate toward beautiful girls. Carve out some extra time in the morning to enhance your natural beauty by applying makeup and doing your hair. When applying makeup, be sure to cover up your imperfections with concealer and foundation and highlight the features you want to show off. Never use dramatic makeup that isn't age appropriate. You want to look a natural beauty, not like Lady Gaga, so go easy on the makeup.
     Create a feminine hairstyle by curling your hair. All men love women with sexy, wavy hair. Use an actual curling iron to create bouncy waves. Steer clear of scrunching your hair with gel, it looks unnatural and leaves a less-than-appealing texture on the hair. Doing this each morning will not only enhance your beauty, but increase your confidence. Confidence is the sexiest accessory any woman can wear.